Some people have a love / hate relationship with his family, boss , friends and even your partner. For those people can be a totally loving time, another very offensive moment. Then we wonder how come to have boyfriend / girlfriend? How come you get a job with that character?. Such people do not often think about what they will mean to offend many people reaching.
Find ways to treat with the people Rude is not easy, and less if it's your boss or your mother, because they are people with whom you should think twice before arguing with them. Here are some simple and subtle phrases that can help in these cases.
1. THANK YOU VERY MUCH
A simple "thank you" says a lot. Not only samples to the other person that his words did not affect you but reflects maturity on your part.
This will keep your thinking positive thoughts and actions, In addition you show that rude words simply do not take power over you.
2. RESPECT YOUR OPINION
It's a smart attitude. You show yourself to the rude person who just wants to communicate in an adult manner, not stoop to their level. Rude people always want to let you down in a conversation, but show them that you can carry on a conversation with dignity and respect.
3. This conversation is over
If you find yourself too angry to answer someone in a civilized manner, simply end the conversation. You do not want to cause permanent damage to a relationship stay calm, but neither do you want to disrespect yourself.
4. VAS hurt my feelings.
Although it is a bit sarcastic, but he tells the other person that you choose not absorb their negativity.
5. YOU'RE RIGHT.
While most people have difficulty saying these two words, It is beneficial because the other person will think that was right which will be given by culminated discussion.
6. THERE IS ALWAYS SOMETHING TO SAY NEGATIVE, TRUE?
This will draw the attention of these people, making them think twice before choosing the topics of conversation. Not only will you get his attention in his own words, but also they force them to reconsider what they say in the future.
7. I LOVE MYSELF, I LOVE YOU TOO.
This can only be applied in certain situations with friends, family and spouse, as this would not tell your boss, isn't it? Goodness always prevails over negativity; darkness can not succeed where light is present. When you express to the other person how much you love life, comments become irrelevant and lose potency quickly. His words have the ability to increase all the energy of a room and promote more positive conversation.
This reaction seeks to catch the rude person off guard and make this uncomfortable. A laugh will make the moment that seems serious lighten up a bit and will send a message that the rude comments of others do not affect your mood or vision of life.
In a nutshell: Only you choose how to react to any given situation, Like this I always choose happiness!