Finding love is a pleasant accident. You know someone great, spend time with that person, you're going to know and, if things line up perfectly, you just "finding" love.
People around the world love every day. Love is not a rarity on this planet.
But true love does.
True love is the one that has what it takes to overcome the test of time.
It is flexible, adaptable, always growing and changing. And it's incredibly rare because it needs a lot of time to develop.You have to be with someone for years to know for sure that what they have is not any love, is true love.
And it is that true love is not something you find yourself not with what you stumble. It's something you build, slowly and carefully.
Love is precious, but there is nothing more precious in this world than true love. Not because it's too pure (People are imperfect beings, so nothing can be really pure, ¿no?), but because it is honest and real.
And in a world like ours, This is more than what you can expect.
The early stages of love are the most intense and exciting, but also the most superficial and fragile.
When we fall, the world becomes a more pleasant place. The sun shines brighter and fresher breeze blows.
It's amazing how something as simple as falling in love can have such a profound effect on our perception of the world.
When love is still new, We feel an intense need, almost like hunger, by the person we love. We want to spend time with that person, know on an intimate level, go from only form a bond, An association.
We want know all the mystery that lies behind the eyes of our love.
But as time passes and we get to know that person at a deeper level, The mystery begins to fade. The excitement becomes less exciting.
This is the pivotal moment in any relationship. It is the time when love dies or starts to become something more.
The relationships, even the "best", fail
People make mistakes. People change. People let their egos absorb the best of them and stop being the friend, lover, partner your partner deserves.
The true love, However, It is not an emotion. It is a way of feeling. It is a way of life.
It is to be there for the person you love because you do not conceive otherwise. And even more than that, It is striving to build such a strong bond with that person even when one of the two leave this world, the love that bound them still alive.
The only way to ensure that what you have is true love is take a look at yesterday, all those years that were next to each other through good times and for bad, and understand that the only way they could have come this far is because they share true love.